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Qualities of a High-Performing Seller #3: Understanding the Buyer-Seller Paradox

Most sellers, particularly lawyers and other professional service providers, sell rationally: by trying to persuade or prove to the buyer why they are the best solution. But the science of sales tells us that buyers make their decision on what to purchase based on emotion or “gut feel” rather than a rational decision making. This problem—the mismatch between sellers’ and buyers’ behaviors—is called the Buyer-Seller Paradox. There is an inherent conflict between the way most buyers buy and the way most sellers sell.